In yesterday’s post I outlined 6 areas in which we can find self-abandonment. Today we are going to delve deeper into emotional self-abandonment. We tend to abandon ourselves emotionally as a way of coping with or avoiding coping with difficult feelings, such as loneliness, heartbreak, helplessness... We judge ourselves rather than accept ourselves. Did you … Continue reading #SELFLOVEFEB DAY 2: SELF-ACCEPTANCE
Women, we luuuuuurve romance. I am sure you know this because we reward romantic gestures with great generosity, nudge nudge wink wink. This is because romantic gestures lead to a release in oxytocin, the hormone which regulates sexual response in women. More on that at the Loving Women, Understanding Men, BETTER seminar on the 27th … Continue reading DECODING WOMEN: HOW TO BE A ROMANTIC GUY
Babe, do I look fat in this? No need to resort to ending your life, this conversation can have a happy ending. Let me let you in on some insider info. Usually when a lover asks you this question it is not because she values your opinion as a fashionista, but because she is feeling insecure. … Continue reading Decoding Women: The answer to “Do I Look Fat in This?”
For woman's month, this is what I am doing for women (and the men who love them). Generally, men don’t get women. It’s okay because women don’t get men either. Mainly because we really, really, really want to believe that men are complicated. But I digress. Most of you guys aren’t very motivated to understand … Continue reading Decoding Women
Imagine making love while wearing a full body latex suit. It would be challenging, yes? Thanks to social media, I get to communicate with lots of people who are reading my latest book, The Goddess Mojo Bootcamp: Awesome Relationships are an Inside Job. Many are complaints that the exercises early on in the book are too … Continue reading The Hard Work
“It is the time you have wasted for your rose that makes your rose so important.” ― Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, The Little Prince I asked the author to write this post for the blog after we had a lengthy conversation about her "unusual" virginity at 27. I am interested in more insights around the matter. Is it really unusual … Continue reading 27-Year Old Virgin
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The second episode of Mokapelo I shot was with Simnikiwe. She had put herself under immense pressure relationship-wise because she (1) wanted to get married by 30 (she's 26) and, (2) the next guy she went out with HAD to be the one. This was because Sim's plans had been scuppered by life. She had intended … Continue reading Where Does Your Value Lie?
This article is written by Renecia Malgas. I met Renecia when she signed up for my Goddess Bootcamp Winter Intensive. One of her challenges was that she was struggling to manifest a romantic relationship. Some months later I was doing a Reality Radio show for Power FM called the Mojo Bootcamp. The idea was that I … Continue reading Renecia’s Love/Life Makeover